亞里斯多德式的愛情諮商

Aristotelian Love Counseling

10.7065/MRPC.200712.0137

陳俊宇(Chun-Yu Chen)

亞里斯多德 ； 友愛φιλíα ； 哲學諮商 ； 愛(符號略)ρως ； 倫理學 ； Aristotle, Friendship φιλíα ； Philosophical Counseling ； Love (The symbol is abbreviated)ρως ； Ethics

哲學與文化

34卷12期（2007 / 12 / 01）

137 - 152

繁體中文

論文主題是建立在哲學諮商的理論成為一種新的方式之後，專門就愛情方面作討論，故愛情諮商在此應定義成「屬於愛情方面的哲學諮商」。而其根據是運用古老希臘的智慧—從柏拉圖的愛到亞里斯多德的友愛，透過愛和友愛的注重並思考到其內涵為何，使吾人進而思考究竟這樣的倫理學方向是否能在愛情諮商提供有力的資料或立場。這樣的方式不只是在將哲學諮商的理論深化在生活上，並能專門在愛情的種種問題之後，思考其愛情是否有其德行基礎，而本文的立場便是亞里斯多德式的。不但是專門以亞里斯多德的友愛與其倫理學的整體脈絡出發，希望能在這樣的基礎上給予愛情方面的哲學諮商一種新的面貌。 本文一開始從「哲學諮商是什麼？」來說明，接著就「愛和友愛是探討什麼？」、「亞里斯多德如何定位友愛德行與其倫理學的關係？」、「愛和友愛如何幫助哲學諮商？」等議題，並將其作為哲學諮商的一種基礎和方法作嘗試性的建構，這樣的探討不只是一種理論的論證，而是更落實在生活面向的關懷，並以此視角作為亞里斯多德理論在當代仍應被再重視的呼籲。

The theme of this paper is based on the theory of philosophical counseling as a new methodology and meant to discuss specifically the counseling on love; therefore, love counseling should be here defined as ”philosophical counseling on love.” The ground for such counseling is the application of ancient Greek wisdom-from the Platonic love to the Aristotelian friendship. Through the dual emphasis on love and friendship as well as the consideration of their immanence, one begins to think about whether such an ethical approach is capable of providing significant information or strong positions on love counseling. Such a method is not only to imprint the theories of philosophical counseling in everyday life but also to consider, with all the problems about love, whether there are foundations of virtue for love. This paper is taking the Aristotelian position, approaching this topic from the specific perspective of Aristotelian friendship and it's entire ethical context in wishes to renew the look of philosophical counseling on love. This article starts with the question: What is philosophical counseling? Then we proceed with the following questions: What are love and friendship about? How did Aristotle define the relationship between the virtue of friendship and it's ethics? How do love and friendship help with philosophical counseling? These agenda are regarded as an experimental construction of love and friendship as the ground and method of philosophical counseling. Such an inquiry is not simply a theoretical argument but something that should be realized in dimension of everyday life, so as to make an appeal that Aristotle' theories should be appreciated again in the contemporary days.

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