「我很愛你，我好害怕你會離開我」：由照護癌末病人配偶的經驗反思哀傷之意涵

＂I love you, and I am afraid of losing you＂: Reflecting the Meaning of Grief in the Experience of Caring the Spouse of the Terminal Cancer Patient

10.6537/TJHPC.201711_22(3).006

王馥亭(Fu-Ting Wang)；鄭逸如(Yih-Ru Cheng)；楊于婷(Yu-Ting Yang)；張琦郁(Chi-Yu Chang)；林耀盛(Yaw-Sheng Lin)；吳治勳(Zhi-Xun Wu)；黃靜怡(Jing-Yi Huang)；呂燕茹(Yen-Ju Lu)

哀傷 ； 因應 ； 關係失落 ； grief ； coping ； loss of the relationship

安寧療護雜誌

22卷3期（2017 / 11 / 01）

333 - 343

繁體中文

本文旨在探討癌末病人配偶所經歷之哀傷經驗與其意涵。安寧緩和醫療場域，病人摯親面臨病人即將死亡的威脅以及關係斷裂，多數會經歷明顯而強烈的哀傷。哀傷，隨著其情境發展脈絡與展現面貌的不同，具有其特殊的情緒意涵。對部分即將面臨喪親的人而言，哀傷的歷程可視為一種因應，具有預備性與保護性的作用。本案例報告以一位接受安寧緩和醫療末期病人的配偶為例，探究其哀傷情緒的展現以及哀傷情緒之發展脈絡，期能探討哀傷經驗對面臨喪親的人而言在適應上之意涵。

This article explores the grief experienced by the spouse of a terminal cancer patient and clarifies the implication of grief. In hospice and palliative care field, the beloved spouse of the patient would experience obvious and strong grief when facing the potential death and loss of the relationship. Grief has particular emotional meanings in different contexts or ways of expressing. For some individuals, grief can be a kind of coping and has preparatory and protective effects. By presenting the case of the spouse of a terminal cancer patient who accepted the hospice and palliative care, we explored the grief that the spouse expressed and its related context, and attempted to understand the adaptive role of grief.

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